Common Solvable Relationship Problems
Relationships have always had ups and downs, and only few relationships could boast to have no problems at all. Despite all this, knowing the problems early can buy you time to solving them.
Although many relationships over the years have been able to solve or at least manage their relationship issues or conflicts. Just as there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, so is a solution for every problem. Note to self that if these problems aren’t solved, they could cause a rip between families.
With that being said, here are some common relationship problems that could easily be solved;
This is definitely the mother of all relationship problems. But just as it is a parent problem, so does it have a rather easy solution. First of all try as much to be a good listener, try not to interrupt when your partner is speaking. Don’t scream at each other; if you can’t speak without screaming then choose a noisy place where you would be embarrassed if people heard you screaming.
Conflict they say, is a clash of interest. It is always part of the society, so don’t be surprised if you have a clash in your relationship. Conflicts in relationships may vary depending on the situation at the time.
Some of the ways to resolve conflicts are; to first of all stop pointing fingers at each other, accept when you’re wrong. Some times we argue based on payback and so we tend to make statements we may regret in the end. Therefore switch things, try to check what caused the disagreement before making a reply.
3. Problem of Trust
Merriam Webster said that trust is the reliance in character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something. When your partner says that they trust you it means that there is always truth in whatever you say or think. Just as trust is earned, so it is easily lost and once it is lost , it is difficult to get back.
There are a few ways to curb this problem, some of them may include:
- If you are going to be late, call to say you will be home late.
- Nevertheless, always try to be on time.
- Always respect your partner’s boundaries, you both need space sometimes.
- Don’t over react when there is an issue; and the list goes on
4. Problem of Finance
Financial problems can start anywhere, either before the wedding or after the weddings. Nevertheless the only ways to manage this particular problem is team work, and to have that team work in curbing this problem is to do some of these few things;
- Outside your own savings, have joint savings with your partner.
- Always be honest about your finance.
- Always plan together on how money is to be spent in the house.
- And the list goes on….
Sonya Parker said “Problems should be like speed bumps. You slow down just to get over it, but you don’t let it stop you from heading to your destination.”
This just means that problems will always come and it’ll only take you both to work as a team to weather the storm.
These are some of the most common solvable problems in relationships. I hope you liked it?
Thanks for reading.