Helpful Tips To Forgetting An Ex

Breaking up is one of the most difficult things to do in any relationship; it only shows that the relationship failed. Like we’ve always said, it doesn’t matter who ended things, the fact is that it ended and now it is time to move on. It is not easy to move on after a break up and so some people end up drinking themselves to stupor or even doing drugs to ease the tension of separation.

Therefore in order to help those who may be thinking of such solutions, here are a few tips to help you forget your ex.  We can’t promise it to be an immediate solution because it is all a gradual process.

• Accept the fact that it is over

Everyone is always hurt when in situations like this, and it may probably be for a long time. First of all you need to accept that what is done is done and not think about what may have led to the separation or how you would have avoided problems that would have led to this day.

• Get Social

After a breakup, you no longer have the urge to be around people. But if you want to really forget about him, then you’d need to go out and be socially active because it helps you ease the tension and also helps you forget about your ex.

• Let go of the thoughts

Thoughts like ‘what if…?’ or ‘ I wish…’ will always hinder you from forgetting about them. Do not stick to thoughts about the relationship because at some point, you’d have to think about your own well being. Even if you are having thoughts about repairing the tear between the two of you, what makes you think they are interested?

• Avoid contact with your ex

You should as much as possible avoid any contact with your ex, because when you contact them, you will without any doubt breakdown. Block him on any social media accounts; delete his emails, his phone numbers and everything that can make you contact him for any reason at all.

• Try and find love again

This is one way to get rid of the memories of your ex. That your first relationship didn’t work doesn’t mean love is over for you. You will end up finding someone who actually values and respects you.

These are some of the tips to forgetting an ex. I hope it was helpful?

Thanks for reading.