How To Break Up With Your Boyfriend

Relationship sometimes can be frustrating when you’re not with the right person. Nevertheless, there always comes a time when you have to end up a really happy relationship with your boyfriend. And doing this can be heart breaking and also could hurt your partner. Although you can’t continue to leave your partner in the dark when you no longer sense a future between the both of you.

Anyway, here are ways to break up with your boyfriend without causing so much pain. If something is missing between the two of you, then you have to stop negotiating or contemplating and just grab the bull by the horns.

• Deliver the news in person

Screw text messages or phone calls even. You have to say this to your partner face to face because you owe it to him. The reason texts will not be acceptable is because you may leave the wrong impression in your partners head. Phone calls are only acceptable if there is an actual distance barrier.

• Choose a convenient time

You don’t want to tell him while he is on the job, you’ll disrupt him. The best time would be on a weekend after work where you both could get over it through the weekend. It may not be easy to regroup that fast but what can I say?

• Choose a semi perfect destination or venue

Go to a serene place like the park or going for a walk or even by the lake side. Clearly you can’t say it at home because after such a break up, space and privacy would be needed for whomever needs to think or whoever needs to cry as the case maybe.

• Tell him what you have in mind but be clear and firm

You can go in this line “I really love you, but for some reasons I can’t explain, I can’t give you that future you envision for the both of us. My feelings are clouded and I need to get them clear but I know I’ll have to end our relationship.”

Being honest and clear when you are breaking up with the right man may even hurt you more than your partner. But still, you owe them that honesty. Breaking someone you really love could break you but you’ll be OK because you may have just done the right thing for the both of you.

This is a few tips on how to break up with your boyfriend. Tell us what you think in the comments.

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